“I love you, no matter who you think you’ve become” ~ Tatsu
Hum…a great example of loving someone through, and because of, their scars. Our scars often make us think we are unlikable or even unlovable. Ironically, vulnerability with these scared experiences brings something beyond. With the right person/sidekick we will not only be more loved because of our scars, but we will also learn to find strength and power within them.
(for more on this check out The Power of a Scar)
“The line between grief and guilt is a thin one. Sometimes death is preferable to the agony of life.” ~Tatsu
True. This quote speaks to many different stages all at once and we have to be careful to recognize what she is really saying here. This is not a promotion of suicide but rather a statement of fact regrading the difficulty of life and an identity that has not reformed. Maseo is stuck. He is fluctuating continuously between Broken, Surviving and Vigilante and making no progress to move forward. Although he has the experience and training to be a hero he is not because he as no reason to live (stuck in Broken), a purpose that is not his own (stuck in Surviving), and no sidekicks (stuck in Vigilante). He has become stuck because he has developed an identity that IS his trauma. The reconstruction of an identity is very important to growth and moving through the stages. With an identity that is “island bound,” he is unable to use the broken part of his past as a tool. He doesn’t know who he is apart from the horrific event. He is still capable of amazingly good acts, and intensely gruesome undertakings. For those in similar states this is dangerous ground and very similar to becoming a villain. (for more on this subject check out Failure Redeemed)