Oliver – Someone once told me that the essence of heroism was to die so that others might live.
Diggle – It’s not that simple Oliver.
Oliver – Yes, it is. Slade’s whole plan was to take everything from me. He did. He wins. All that’s left is for me to die.
In this scene we see Oliver playing both the role of broken (wanting to die) and hero (wanting to die for others). Oliver is broken again…still a hero but broken (now in the area of family). This is a very heroic way to approach death…however, in the context he is doing it in (without “the fight”… not meaning physical fight but rather metaphorical fight. The fight to help others, the fight for a cause) he is revealing how broken he is. Oliver is now living in the hero stage in reference to “the island” but he has entered a broken stage in regards to his family and relationships. To come out of this he will have to decide that he wants to survive yet again…just as he did in the cave on the island in the first season when he chose to try and survive the island.
Our lives are a lot like this too. We live in multiple stages at once. We are heroes in some aspects of our lives and still naive “playboys” in others. When examining the different components of our lives (such as family, finances, health, relationships, occupation, physique, ) we find that we are just surviving or becoming vigilantes with a solid purpose in some parts and completely broken in others. Being broken is never a desirable place to be however it can lead to becoming a hero. And for Oliver, now that he is becoming a hero in respect to the island…he will have the chance to become a hero in more than one area of his life (physique, health, occupation…and now family). As he becomes a hero in more than one area of life he will become a superhero. We have this option in real life as well. We can move through the stages, not as literally, but with just as much difficulty. It’s a process. The process of becoming a superhero. (for more click here)